LALA JI TO LEADER JI

“If Your Employees Update LinkedIn and Naukri More Than Your Family Business Updates Strategy, This Post is for You…”

Savita Morale

10/18/20252 min read

“If Your Employees Update LinkedIn and Naukri More Than Your Family Business Updates Strategy, This Post is for You…”

I’ve worked with many family-owned businesses — proud, resilient, legacy-driven… and sometimes stuck in the classic “LALA JI KNOWS THE BEST” syndrome 😅.

Even profitable Lala Companies face hidden challenges that quietly erode profits, frustrate talent, and block growth.

The Psychology of Lala Leadership

Family business founders are amazing — emotionally invested, protective of legacy, and fiercely driven.

But here’s what I’ve seen (and research confirms):

  • Decisions are personal, not strategic

  • Intuition often trumps data (technology is scary!)

  • Employees are loyal to the family, not the company

PwC reports 68% of Indian family businesses struggle in the second generation due to lack of governance, structured systems, and role clarity and people management.

Emotional ownership is a strength — until it becomes a bottleneck.

HR Challenges I See

From my consulting experience (and research):

Area Common Scenario Impact

*Recruitment- Loyalty over skill- Missed talent

Training- On-the-job only- Skill gaps

Appraisal- Obedience rewarded- Top performers leave

Engagement- Emotional loyalty expected- Low engagement

Structured HR systems can boost profitability by 20–25% and reduce attrition by 30%. I’ve seen it work.

Innovation: Breaking the Founder’s Trap

Classic Lala cycle:

  1. Employee suggests idea

  2. Founder ignores it

  3. Competitor implements it

  4. Founder asks: “Why didn’t we think of this?” 🤦‍♀️

HBR calls this the Founder’s Trap — emotional ownership slowing delegation and innovation.

The fix? Decision frameworks, accountability, and structured innovation channels. Companies that implement this innovate 30–40% faster.

💰 The Cost of Staying Old-School

Even profitable Lala Companies leave money on the table:

  • Lost productivity: 25–30% annually

  • Talent flight: up to 40% of high-potential employees leave in 2 years

  • Opportunity cost: slow adoption of tech and delayed decisions

Irony: avoiding professionalization to “save costs” often costs more than any consultant ever could.

⚙️ Turning Lala Ji into Leader Ji

Here’s what I do for family businesses:

  • Retain & develop top talent using strategic HR

  • Make faster, data-driven decisions without losing family essence

  • Modernize operations with governance, accountability, and AI tools

  • Boost profitability while preserving legacy

Professionalization does not kill legacy — it supercharges it. 🚀

🧩 Summary

Your legacy is priceless. But without systems, strategy, and execution:

  • Talent quietly updates LinkedIn

  • Competitors pass you by

  • Market relevance slips

I help family businesses modernize operations, strengthen HR, and align strategy with legacy — so you can grow, innovate, and stay the boss without being a micromanaging Lala 😎.

Savita Morale

consultant@labdhihr.com